Roundtable Recording

If you were unable to attend the Roundtable, the recording is available below. If you are a grieving parent, then we hope you’ll find comfort and encouragement from viewing. And if you are someone who has not lost a child, learning from those who are bereaved parents will help you know how to better help a grieving friend.


Questions and Time Signatures

1. What is the worst thing to say and the best thing to say to a bereaved parent? (17:55)

2. How can someone help their grieving friend? What can they do to help? (24:10)

3. How can a bereaved parent deal with anger, guilt, and loneliness? How do we deal with all of the emotions that we are going through? (30:00)

4. Conversation about friends and family understanding and finding deep friendships with other bereaved parents (45:00)

5. How can I relate to friends and family who are sharing struggles that seem so shallow compared to what I'm going through? (51:29)

6. My heart is hurting four years later. Am I going to always hurt this badly? Will I always be grieving? (56:20)

7. Why does a loving God allow so much pain and suffering? (1:05:00)

8. What are some things that we can do on our child's birthday and Heaven day? (1:10:17)

9. What is the best way to help a struggling spouse deal with the loss? What are the differences in how mothers and fathers grieve? (1:15:52)

10. How do we help grieving siblings? What can I say or do to help my surviving children? (1:22:00)

11. How do I convey my grief to our church leadership? What do pastors need to understand about parents who are grieving the loss of a child? Are there specific things we can share and what can we ask from our church leadership? (1:43:35)

12. A few books and scriptures shared for grieving parents...(1:52:08)

Discussion Leaders

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Gary and Laura House

(Our Hearts Are Home)

Gary and Laura’s son, Nathan, went to Heaven in 2016 at the age of 25. An incredibly kind, loving, son and brother, Nathan cherished his friends and family. He was an electrical engineer and entrepreneur. Although it wasn’t evident to those around him until after he was gone, he silently and valiantly fought depression for many years but died by suicide. Gary and Laura, and their other two children, look forward with anticipation to being reunited with him one day. Gary serves as Executive Director of Our Hearts Are Home and Laura works for the Institute for Excellence in Writing.

Brad and Jill Sullivan

(While We’re Waiting— whilewerewaiting.org)

Brad and Jill’s daughter, Hannah, went to Heaven on February 26, 2009, at the age of 17. She battled her brain cancer for one year with grace and without fear, accepting it as “her storm” … her opportunity to bring glory to God. Brad is a school superintendent and Jill is a speech pathologist. They enjoy hiking, kayaking, and spending time with their daughter Bethany.